Compare and Contrast: Self Help Memoirs
This year I read many books, including many memoirs. I read three memoirs that were about self help - one general and two about specific kinds of self help. The books were Help Me by Marianne Power, 10% Happier by Dan Harris, and The Gratitude Diaries by Janice Kaplan. Each was written by a journalist, each about the same length (I will admit that 10% Happier was an audiobook, but equivalent length).
I like reading self-help books. There's no end to what we can learn about ourselves, and looking at it through others' eyes is always worthwhile, even if we eventually disregard their advice. I read other self-help books this year, but these were the three that were styled as memoirs, with more personal connection.Overall, The Gratitude Diaries was my favorite, easily. I've been practicing gratitude for a while, but it was really good for me to see the true impact of the practice. Help Me was arguably the one I looked forward to the most, and it was even one that I asked the library to purchase, but ultimately I found it painful to get through, mostly from second hand embarrassment. For someone to look at self help the way Power did seemed odd to me, and too much. I get immersing yourself in bettering yourself, but at least Kaplan and Harris did other things to balance it out. I find that too much introspection sets yourself up for disappointment and frustration.
Overall, I thought all of these books were worth the read, but I'd probably recommend The Gratitude Diaries and 10% Happier over Help Me, even though they've older (but really this is a fairly timeless concept).
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